I am not an acquirer of movies. As a general rule. I tend to prefer to see them once…at the theater, or as a rental…and then have done with them. But occasionally I encounter a film that merits revisiting. Chewing. Contemplating. Or perhaps it simply is so nourishing it should be eaten at regular intervals. In any event, here are eleven films I have chosen to buy. And to revisit. Again and again.
Amelie On the most ordinary day, this film can sweep me away to some place other. And my heart is filled with a delirious joy that I don’t even know how to explain. It is an artsy, quirky, eccentric sort of picture. Of a woman unusually aware. Who sets out to better the lives of those around her, surreptitiously. And I am overcome by the power of one. One person who sees. Audrey Tautou is lovely, and the film is beautiful in the extreme.
Casablanca Love is complex. Not always as it seems. And sometimes the most ordinary person is a hero in disguise. Just when you think you have a story figured out, it is likely to take a most unexpected turn. And if you have the great good fortune to watch all this play out in intrigue filled French North Africa, with Humphrey Bogart as your leading man and Ingrid Bergman as the woman who stole his heart, well, you are most fortunate indeed. Every time I hope it will end differently. And every time I know the ending is just right as it is. “Here’s looking at you, kid.”
Chocolat This one I love, not for the complex story (there is none), but for its remarkable facility for reaching that most sensual place in each of us. For helping us remember the pleasure to be found in the simplest things. For teaching us that a life lived in anger and suspicion shrinks us, while a life lived with arms open makes more of us than we could imagine. This one I take for nourishment. It fans that part of me that drinks in life as sacrament, as gift, as joy.
Crash The first time I ever watched it, I couldn’t finish it. It almost made me sick. So why come back to it? Why own it? Why? Because it is important. Important does not necessarily mean easy. It still makes me sick. I need to be sick about this. Dostoevsky-like characters who are never entirely good or entirely evil try to find their way in the world….learning who they are by remembering who they are not. Oh God, how despicably we have marred Your plan! How we love to hate! How we define ourselves by our hatred! Lord have mercy. Have mercy on us all. Set the world right. Your Kingdom come.
Hero Visually ravishing. A story told in different voices. And each voice tells his or her story in a different color. And sometimes the beauty is so exquisite that it is painful. Blessed pain. My heart hurts. But there is something so lovely and so deeply true that I can’t not watch it again. And again…
Magnolia Only a master storyteller can weave so many stories in and out of one another and manage to keep the viewer engaged…yay, verily, enthralled. And on each subsequent viewing, layers emerge. Subtle nuances that were not visible the first time. Complex characters that only give a bit of themselves at once. And the weather helps tell the story. And the weather is all wrong. And crazy and bizarre. And I don’t even mind. Somehow it fits. And perhaps that is the most startling thing of all.
Memoirs of a Geisha “The very word “geisha” means artist and to be a geisha is to be judged as a moving work of art.” I am thoroughly captivated by these women who endure unbelievable hardships, and yet manage to transform themselves into moving, breathing works of art. It is a concept that has completely fascinated me since I heard this line for the first time. This is one of the few occasions…perhaps the only…where I saw a movie that compelled me to read a book. Usually it’s the other way round. Difficult. Tragic. But outrageously gorgeous.
Memento There is too much profanity. And the violence, though judicious, is cruel. But this is one of the most brilliant films I have ever seen. The main character is trying to track down the man who raped and murdered his wife. But he has lost his ability to make short term memories. In a stroke of movie making genius, Christopher Nolan tells us the story in reverse, in ten minute segments, so that we may share the discombobulation of our protagonist. And just when you think you know who the good guys are…look out! Ironic. Troubling. Provocative. Enthralling.
The Notebook Sentimental, yes. Sappy sweet, perhaps. But this is a story of loving long. Of loving when love costs everything. When everyone else says you have loved enough. And that is a story that means a great deal to me. Perhaps more than most. No apologies here. I have it. I love it. That’s that.
O Brother Where Art Thou SO many reasons I love this film!! The rural south as portrayed in this film is very like the world I grew up in. (When one lives in a small town, it is almost as if time stands still. Though the film is set 3 full decades before my birth, much of this world is recognizable to me.) The music is my music. I even used to go sing at a little radio station like the one on the side of the road where the “Soggy Bottom Boys” make their debut. The story is The Odyssey, recast. (For about the hundredth time). I am just nerdy enough to LOVE this. I notice new parallels every time I watch it. But mostly, it makes me laugh. It makes our whole family laugh. And we recite lines to one another about being “loved up”, and about how “we thought you wuz a toad.” And I’m still on the lookout for some Dapper Dan hair pomade. Let me know if you find any.
The Tree of Life This film is very like a poem. It is pleasing, seductive even, upon the first viewing. Yet it hides a good bit of its truth, hinting enough that you know you will come back to dig deeper. It is a truth that is not flung at you. Predigested. Sorted into compartments. It must be wrung out of you. I will submit to its wringing. I will breathe the words. I will watch the earth writhing and foaming and forming. And I will stand in awe. I will attempt to make sense of the story. And I will give truth a place to grow in me. A bit at a time.
Which are the films you go back to over and over again?
*First in a series of eleven posts of elevens; one for each of the first eleven days of the eleventh month of 2011.
**Special thanks to Karissa for suggesting this first “11″ topic.

I would add another Humphrey Bogart film to the list, “The Petrified Forrest.” Great film about love and honor.
Thanks, Lawrence! I have not seen this one. I look forward to getting to know it.
In America, Directed by Jim Sheridan. Sad and hopeful.
Thanks, Ian! You’ve never let me down with a book recommendation, so I’m going to trust you on this. Besides, I just read the synopsis and it looks remarkable.
One of my absolute favorites!! I’m a sucker for an immigrant story.
Steel Magnolias- every time I grow tomatoes, I think of Weezer and how, like her character, I don’t like tomatoes- I just grow them because I’m a Southern woman. I love watching how a mother will fight for her daughter, no matter her daughter’s age. Very few movies have me crying and laughing within seconds of each other- this movie was the first.
The Help- although it’s new, I think it provides a good reminder that while we may seem so different from each other, all women are basically the same. We have the same desires, same dreams, same needs.
Mona Lisa Smile- set in 1952-1953 it shows that the decisions those young women were making are the same we make today. Family? Career? Can you have a family without sacrificing brains and interests? It came out when I was in college yet still resonates with me today.
I’m sure there are more, but I’ve written enough for now!
Thanks, Cassie! You have chosen films that resonate deeply within the heart of a women. Films about friendship, and legacy, and choice. I hope at least one of these babies you are carrying turns out to be a girl. I would enjoy seeing you with a daughter.
And yes, there are always more. I would have liked to include something by Hitchcock. I thought about Life is Beautiful and Schindler’s List, definitely should have included The Lord of the Rings……….
I love all three of these! Steel Magnolias is such a great Southern moms/daughters movie!!!
This is an easy question… when you move to the other side of the world in only a suitcase, only the most cherished are deemed worthy of taking valuable weight…
The Shawshank Redemption – my favorite movie of all time. I may or may not have seen it more than 30 times. Brilliant, moving, contemplative, and difficult to watch. I love it.
Bella – Again, difficult subject matter. Agonizing. But such a stunning and unusual portrayal of redemption. Arty, quirky, unusual,…and set in my town. =)It feels at times like a love story to my city as it shows NY as it really is.
Shooter – I know it’s violent. But SOOOOO GOOOOOOOOD! I’ve watched it so many times I have literally worn out the DVD. Literally. It won’t play. I’m asking for it again for Christmas. Mark Walberg… what more do I need to say. (is it wrong to still call him Marky Mark?)
The Princess Bride – sheer deliciousness, American humor, fairy tales… Maybe the most quoted movie of all time. I’ve even made Italian friends watch it (they don’t get it) and taught them quotes. Hilarious!
Lord of the Rings – I own the boxed set director’s cut. I love how literally it portrays the relentless pursuit of evil. Warrior Princesses, magic, heros in the nick of time, depth of friendships, the commitment to serve another in their time of need, … What’s not to love? – and watch over and over and over.
27 Dresses – and PS I Love You – the 2 romantic comedy movies that made the cut for me. Funny, sad, silly, real… they both show the crazy part of a woman in love. When we put on his shirt and sing into the hairbrush, the over-the-top meeting-needs-in-order-to-get-his-attention ridiculousness, and in both movies – the power and depth of girl friendships. (every single time PS I Love You ends, I check ticket pricing to Ireland) =)
So, so good, Izi!! Thanks! Love your choices! I am regretting not including The Lord of the Rings. We just recently had to replace the entire set because, like your Shooter, we had worn them out. Haven’t seen Shooter, by the way. Gonna have to remedy that.
I was going to suggest Shawshank Redemption, too. Oh, and Princess Bride!! One of the best movies ever!! “Mawwiage . . . “
Too. Many. To. List…. and while I LOVE films and want to be challenged by them, ultimately the ones I watch over and over are the ones that are truly for escape and entertainment.
When I want to laugh (and laugh and laugh): When Harry Met Sally
When I want to sing: Guys and Dolls
When I want to be childlike: Disney’s Aladdin (I saw this 7 times in the theater alone!)
When I want to cry: Becoming Jane or Remember Me
When I want adventure: Indian Jones and the Last Crusade
Whenever: The original Star Wars Trilogy
Thanks, Chelsea! Good stuff! Indiana Jones is the consummate renaissance man. Studious, gallant, brave. (Even if he is terrified of snakes. Who isn’t?) I haven’t seen Becoming Jane since it was in the theater. I think it may be time. But, mostly, I want to watch Guys and Dolls with you and hear you sing.
Are you kidding me? Can’t believe Rat Race did not make your list or that of anyone else.
Haha!! Sorry to disappoint you. But you are right. Definitely one of the funniest movies EVER! Maybe tomorrow I’ll post a list of 11 movies I wish I had added to the list.
In response: I agree with the movie Crash. So hard, yet such a deep, amazing movie. I’ve always remembered the scene with Sandra Bullock telling the maid she’s her only friend. Money doesn’t buy happiness.
I was surprised at Magnolia. But I think it came out when I was in college or right after so I probably didn’t have the cognitive skills to understand it. (Still developing those analytical skills at 33!
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I love Chocolat, too!
A few of these I haven’t seen so I’ll add them to my list.
Big Fish. I love that movie. You’re never quite sure what’s real and what’s fantasy but the thing is we do that with life. We look for the stories. We weave our little lives into stories that make meaning of it all.
Okay – you’re gonna sigh here – but Dead Poets Society (kind of a male version of Mona Lisa Smile I think). Who wouldn’t love a teacher like Robin Williams was in that movie?
Garden State. Again, love this movie. Well, I love Zach Braff, so that explains some of it. I absolutely love the couple in the ark!!! Just a great “carpe diem” movie.
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind – It’s probably not in my top ten, but it’s a really intriguing movie. I’m into brain research and schema theory (being a teacher) so a lot of the stuff in that movie really fits into all that. You kinda have to watch it twice anyway to really get it.
Finding Neverland is one I can watch over and over, as is Finding Nemo. (Hey, it’s a great story, and it’s funny!)
But you have, have, have to watch In America. Amazing. I even showed it to my high schoolers when we did an immigration unit (fast forwarding through the steamy scenes).
Thanks, Karissa! For the record, both Big Fish and Dead Poet’s Society were on my original list. Kelsey is a big fan of Eternal Sunshine and Garden State. Not sure I have ever seen the latter. I think she has it though. And I have located In America at the library. I will be going to get it tomorrow. If you and Ian both like it, it must be good.